The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. This relationship is the template for all the other relationships in your life. Generally speaking, if you have a positive and harmonious relationship with yourself, you will have positive and harmonious relationships with others. If you have a turbulent relationship with yourself, this will be reflected in your relationships with others.
Whether or not you are satisfied with the current relationships in your life, these reflections are a good way to gauge where there is room for improvement.
Do you want to manifest the ideal relationship in your life? Whether it’s friendship, romance, or business you are looking to improve, it all starts with you.
The first step is to love yourself. The second step is to know yourself.
Universal Kabbalah is one of the best tools available to help you to love yourself and to know yourself. Knowing yourself means you understand your strengths and weaknesses, your mission and your purpose. This brings you direction in your life, along with a solid foundation to stand on as you create your own reality.
The partners we choose are a reflection of us, and it could be argued that we always end up with the partner we deserve, due to the energetic match.
Often people end up attracting a partner before they know themselves very well. When this happens, people end up with a partner that represents the aspect of themselves they still need to work on. If this is recognized, it can be harnessed as a powerful opportunity for personal growth. If the person is not aware enough to recognize this reflection, they end up projecting their shadows onto others and in turn blame others, which limits personal growth.
Kabbalah is a beautiful tool that develops our discernment so that we can see through the illusions of reflections. We see a more accurate view of ourselves and others, and recognize the reflections we perceive in others as opportunities to heal and grow.
All healing begins with forgiveness and self love. When we love ourselves and forgive ourselves, we can focus on knowing ourselves. This can strengthen our connection to others, as we begin to recognize the divine spark that unites us all.
Take a moment to identify the relationships in your life. Are you satisfied with them? Are some of your relationships more satisfying than others? Which areas need attention? Which areas make you truly happy? These are all good questions to ask yourself, as this gives you insight into your relationship with yourself.
When you communicate, are you easily triggered, or are you able to listen without judgement? This can show you where you need healing. By bringing love and compassion into these observations, you begin to heal your relationship with yourself and your relationships with others.
Pay attention to this as you interact with others. This will develop your discernment, and may bring clarity to aspects of yourself you may or may not be aware of. And if you are looking for deeper healing and connection, Universal Kabbalah provides the tools for you to explore and heal these aspects of yourself.
The study of Universal Kabbalah is a lifelong journey. Most areas of your life can benefit from this. As with any journey, it’s important to start somewhere. Relationships form an integral part of life on earth, which make your relationships an excellent way to receive direct feedback on your personal development.
Begin to notice the gifts offered to you in every reflection, and observe this for yourself. This will bring much more harmony, balance, and magick into your relationships.